An Interview With A Doula : Birth in
Taiwan
A wonderful part of being in the
“Taipei Long-term Ex-pat with Family” community is mixing with
dynamic, motivated women making their own way in a country that has
become a second home. Canadian-born doula Angela Chang is one such
woman. Curiosity got the better of me, and I begged her to let me
interview her about her experiences in helping others start their own
Taiwan-based families.
So, Angie, tell me about your early
academic background.
I studied English literature in my home
country of Canada, so I could earn enough money to get to Asia. I
wanted to teach English for a year, travel for a year, and then go
home.
Did you have any ambitions to be in the
baby business when you were young?
No, not at all! Well, I wanted to be a
mom and maybe open my own daycare, but I never imagined I would be
helping moms give birth in Taiwan.
So, what happened? Did you get
to travel?
No! I came to Taiwan, met my
now-husband, and had three children. I didn't get to travel much at
all, but I was happy.
Tell me about your experience
having three children in Taiwan.
I had my first baby in hospital. I
thought I knew what to expect, but actually knew nothing about giving
birth in Taiwan, nor how to communicate with my caregiver. I fell
into the hospital trap of having lots of “stuff” done without
being able to speak up. I felt quite powerless during labor. As a
result, I cried for a week after the birth. My son was in the
Neo-natal unit and I was not able to be an advocate my for son or
myself.
I felt so traumatized after my first
birth, that I decided I would just stay home for my second birth.
But, at the time there were no practicing midwives in North Taiwan,
so I just stayed home as long as I could. I got to the hospital at
11:00 and had the baby at 11:10. In retrospect, this was a reaction
to being traumatized during the first birth. I was like, “You
can't do any interventions. Ha! Ha!” These interventions included
being strapped to the bed, which I realized is not compulsory, but
done as routine here in Taiwan.
For my third birth, we were lucky
enough to find the natural birthing center in Shingjuang. I
convinced my husband that it was safe, and then had a fabulous water
birth where I felt like a Superwoman totally in control of my family.
What was your “A-ha! I need to
become a doula” moment?
A friend of mine asked me to be her
doula, because I seemed quite experienced at this birth thing. I
looked up “doula” and said “A-ha!” I knew that this is what
Taiwan needs. Families really need this emotional and educational
support, including continuous support during labor. A lot of
birth-related things are different in Taiwan compared to our own
countries, and new parents really need this extra assistance.
Some readers are probably dying to ask,
“What the heck the is a doula?” Can you give us a definition?
Basically, a doula provides emotional
and educational support for parents. A doula stays for the entire
duration of birth, giving continuous assistance in areas including
suggesting different questions to ask to assist decision making,
trying different birth positions, helping the partner support the
mother, giving reassurance, and unique to Taiwan, helping with
language and cultural differences. Most women appreciate a woman
next to them who has experienced birth before, and who can empathize
with their situation, particularly with birthing in Taiwan. It's not
always practical for family to attend births and it can also provide
relief to moms or aunties who can only arrive after the baby is
actually born.
What are some myths about doulas you'd
like to dispel?
A doula is not a midwife. Not all
doulas are totally pro-natural, anti-intervention. Doulas don't make
medical decisions. They provide information to help parents make
informed decisions, and then support that decision. Doulas can
attend c-sections, and support you during the experience. It's all
about making informed choices.
What's the hardest thing about being a
doula?
Being on-call is really tough. I can't
plan any trips out of town or with my children during the 4 weeks
around the client's due date. Births are unpredictable, so my
husband may need to look after my children for two hours or two days.
I have missed birthdays and children's milestones because I'm at a
birth. I'm not complaining, it's just a part of the job that people
don't really think about.
What's the best thing for you about
your job?
Seeing the reaction of the parents when
the baby is born. It brings me joy every time!
What changes have you seen in birthing
procedures in Taiwan since you started working as a doula?
I've attended 75 births since becoming
certified (through Childbirth International). I thought I'd be
attending three births a year, but I am now attending two to three
per month.
Compared to when I started this work,
there is more immediate contact between mom and baby, and a lot more
support with breastfeeding. There is more rooming-in, and less
scheduled feeding. All hospitals try to get the baby breastfeeding
within the first hour of birth. There are now “LDR”s (labor,
delivery, recovery rooms) for women choosing natural birth. Hospitals
also have equipment like birth-balls, but you still do have to
specifically request them.
How have staff at hospitals reacted to
you, a Canadian woman, coming in and working with them in Taiwan
hospitals?
Honestly, every single hospital has
been very welcoming. Nurses are thankful to have someone to
communicate with in their native language, as well as someone
experienced with Taiwan hospital procedure to give continuous support
to the mother. OBYGNs have been happy to take on suggestions, and
there has been no negativity at all.
Why do clients come to you?
Generally, they are looking for a
natural birth advocate that can explain what is happening in the
Taiwan system. Sometimes, the father is doesn't know how to support
the mother and is looking for support in assisting most effectively.
What have your ex-pat clients been most
surprised about when experiencing birth in Taiwan?
The first thing is how cheap it is!
The second is probably the high level of medical care available, and
the choices available if you know how to get them.
You do a bit of work with The Friendly
Birthing Center. Can you tell me a bit about that?
Barbara Harper, world-renowned
water-birth advocate, trained staff and help set up the water-birth
clinic. The Friendly Birthing Center moved to a better, bigger
location two years ago. They practice “Expectant Management”
This means, they are ready to use interventions like giving an IV if
necessary, as opposed to traditional ways of giving an IV to everyone
whether they need it or not. At “The Center”, you don't need to
lie on the bed all the time because they use a hand-held Doppler
rather than a strap-on unit to monitor the baby. Mothers are
encouraged to try different positions, whether in the water,
squatting, or on their hands and knees.
The Friendly Birthing Center is run by
OBGYNs, not midwives. C-sections can be performed if deemed
necessary. Unlike some other hospitals, dad can attend the
c-section, and breastfeeding is started as soon as possible.
What other interesting birth
information do you have for expectant parents in Taiwan?
Well, home births are covered by NHI,
and actually cheaper than going to the hospital. Your prenatal and
postpartum visits can be done at home, too..Certified midwives do a
four-year nursing degree and then a masters in Midwifery, so they are
well-qualified.
There are some birth classes in Taiwan,
but as they are usually in Chinese, and geared toward local parents,
I run English-language classes throughout the year. It's a great way
for parents to meet others in the same situation as themselves, and
many parents end up forming baby playgroups after the classes. In
Taiwan, you are sent home on the third day after the birth, and there
is no home-support given. I give postpartum visits to help with the
concerns clients have as new parents, whether it be childcare,
breastfeeding, or mom's general wellbeing.
It's about time to wrap up the
interview and let both of us pick up our children from school.
Reflecting on my own birth experience and life with my kids in
Taiwan, I realize how lucky we are to have ex-pats like Angie,
working hard to make life easier for families like mine, in Angie's
case right from before the child's first breath.
Angie's five questions for taking to a
caregiver:
It's important to find out whether you
on the same page as your doctor regarding birth. Here are five
questions you can ask to check whether you are on the same page as
your caregivers.
- What positions do you encourage moms to use in labor?
- What are your policies regarding induction?
- In what ways is your hospital supportive of breastfeeding?
- What is your procedure if a c-section becomes necessary?
- How often do you attend natural births?
Angie is a certified doula and
childbirth educator working in Northern Taiwan. You can find out
more about her services at www.beautifulbeginnings.com.tw.
She also has a community center for families in Neihu:
www.parentsplace.com.tw.
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